if you want people to be crazy about you just gravitate towards you if you want to be a human being magnet the key is and that's the thing that's difficult or maybe it's easy is to not care not want people to like you as soon as you feel in yourself that you want people to like you that energetically will put people off why because if you do not care if people like you or not you're just are who you are people get attracted they get a dopamine hit inside them watching you do the thing that is so elusive and so difficult to do in this world just sit there and relax in your own energy and not care if people like you know like if it really doesn't matter and the worst thing you can do to repel people is trying and get them to like you try and say the right thing try and do the right thing try and second guess just be