how much faster would you achieve your goals if it was just you and your goal not you and your goal and netflix and video games and social media and friends you don't like and movies and shows and all these distractions that are splitting your attention in a million different directions you can blame your lack of accomplishment on your friends and your family on this on that but the reality is if it was just you and your goal and no other noise no other distractions i guarantee you would have nothing better to do than achieve your goals so look around your life and identify the things that take your attention away from the person you want to be in the things you want to accomplish and remove that shit because if your goals are as important to you as you say they are why would you voluntarily make it harder to achieve