ever depend on a man i'm married and i don't depend on my man really yeah no because at the end of the day you never know obviously nobody gets married thinking that you're going to eventually break up but being independent and having your own money that you worked for gives you a different sense of purpose human beings overall i don't think we are built to depend on anybody i think we should all be independent and have our own worth one unit one team one everything i don't believe in that i think you're still your own individuals why do you think so many people nowadays they can't stay married for a long period of time they get divorced in your opinion i think that nowadays everything so disposable and it's so easy to date around to be with someone and being with someone is not easy it's not it's hard any relationship is work because you have to want to make it last you have to want to make it work